So, I live with one of my best friends, Amy. We are both 25 and both single. So, as you can imagine the topic of guys comes up a good amount in our conversations. Not just about guys we would like to date, but also guys we are friends with and our friends husbands. Don't worry, not in a freaky, "you should leave them and date me" kinda way!!! We just comment on traits we like, or hope our future husbands have one day. She said something a few weeks back that hasn't been able to get out of my head. (Sorry Amy for telling the few people who read my blog). She said that she is really happy in life. Great job, friends and family. She is at a good place. Whoever or whenever a guy shows up, he needs to add to that. Otherwise, she was doing OK without him. Now, this may seem like a easy statement to hear... but for me, it really got me thinking. In the past, I think I have focused so much on wanting someone to be in my life, that I have almost ignored who I really am, and also I forget how much God has already blessed me with. I need to stay content at where I am, and then see if God really has someone in mind for me. And when/if a man comes along... I need to be myself and see if he really enjoys who that is. Deep enough thoughts for a Morning?!?!
So, this brings me finally to the point of this post. I found a list on Pintrest, "I need someone who is prepared for...". I couldn't get over how accurate this was for me. So, of course I have to share the list and add my comments in.
I need someone who is prepared for...
1. A million questions.... (But, please keep in mind I am only asking you these, because I really want you to ask me that question).
2. Uncontrollable laughter... (Bless, when i get really tickled it becomes the oddest cackle you will ever hear).
3. My family...(Again, another blog for another day. God bless your heart).
4. My appetite...(I believe in sonic runs at 11:48 at night with all my heart. Its never too late for a sweet peach tea. And I will NEVER like leftovers. Random, but these were the two things that came to mind).
5. Musical outbursts...(I will sing someones ear off. And when I take a road trip, just be prepared for music the entire way. And, sorry but it will all be soft rock or old country. My friends hate me sometimes for it. ha ha).
6.Random dancing...(I love to dance.... but i usually have to be pretty hyper for you to see all my amazing moves. Its pretty awesome! ;-). ha)
7. My friends... (they are my family... their acceptance of someone will matter immensely to me)
8. Sad/Happy tears...(Well, i guess in this case, I need it to say mad tears. This is about the only time you will see me really cry. When someone has made me really mad, the tears flow).
9. Deep Talks...( And they will always be at the most random times. I don't always like opening up, so when I do, it will be random and not expected at all. And people.... at this point stop what you are doing and listen).
10. My imagination... ( This immediatly made me think of my future with my job. Like I mentioned in a previous post I have many dream jobs, and i will talk about them all the time. Just smile and nod your head in aggreance that I may one day do something....)
11. My dreams... same as above
12. Walks in the rain.... ( not so much walks in the rain, but i will be the first one out there to play in it).
13. Random text... (and please text back, or I will continue to check my phone every 2 minutes to see if I have missed a reply).
14. Useless Arguments... ( Now, I do not agree with it when people say, the woman is always right and men should just say "yes, dear". But, I really am right a good majority of the time.... or something like that).
15. Acceptance of the real me... (I think more than someone accepting me, I need to work on actually being the real me.)
Yes, random, pointless thoughts for the day! Maybe I should just print this out and hand it out on first dates... well, then there might not be any 2nd dates. Ha!!
